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Dear Nigerians, You Cannot Force A Man To Love What He Is Fed Up With

There is something I cannot get my head wrapped around some Yoruba and Hausa folks on the internet- their obsession with the Ndi Igbos. They seem to have this mentality that anything the Igbos community does is a threat to them. They think that they have an obligation to always be against whatever the interest and plight of the Igbos are. Whether such a mentality is conscious or subconscious, I find it very silly.
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What really is their business with the Igbo man’s self-agitation? Some of you should just learn to admit it that you don’t just like the Igbos for anything. And will never like them. Yes we know you don’t like them and that is your personal right of dislike, but why are you self-obsessed about the agitation of their community and people?
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Let’s be frank. A lot of you would rather die than see an Igbo President of this Banana republic. And a lot of you derive this orgasmic satisfaction from the political marginalization of the group. Fine you don’t want to ever see that the Igbo man smell power in Nigeria, I understand that you don’t trust them and probably dislike them greatly. But why the heck are you against them leaving the same country that is making mockery of their collective entity?
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The same country which you are part of that hates the Igbo man, is what you encourage to force the Igbo man to be part of? Why do you people love forced marriages and abusive relationships in Nigeria? This Nigerian mentality of forced marriages and abusive relationship that marriage must stand and continue even if the couple are in tearing each other into shreds has catapulted into our national subconsciousness in politics and sociology. Dear Nigeria, you cannot force a man or a group to love what they are fed up with.
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I used to think that if you don’t like a thing or person, you would throw them out or let them just leave. But not in Nigeria. The more the dislike, the more the obsessive compulsion to keep it to one self, thus, the more they dislike the Ndi Igbo community, the more they wish ensure their failure in their self-determination. Okay fine, you don’t want the Biafra movement to succeed, and the same time, you don’t want the Igbos to have a political weight and future. Then, my question is this: WHAT DO YOU WANT THEM TO STAY IN NIGERIA AND DO WITH YOU IN NIGERIA? To scrub your toilets? Continually listen to your ethnic bashing and bickering and all forms of senseless mockery because Buhari and the APC won the elections. Because this is the first time the Igbos have voted in Nigeria, right? You have called them rogues, thieves, wailers, fools, loosers, slaves, etc. Why don’t you let the rogues go their way? Or do you love keeping rogues to yourselves?

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A lot of you have mentioned Nnamdi Kanu’s names more than an average Igbo man. What for exactly? I thought you said he is a clown. But you are so obsessed about his joke. Biafra, is now mocked as BIAFRAUD by you, but you can’t sleep a night without talking about the movement. I don’t get you people at all. If something is a joke, why then pay so much participatory attention to it? Is that suppose to be a joke on your part?
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First of all they said Nnamdi Kanu should come to Nigeria if he is serious. He came and he got arrested, they celebrated, calling him daft for showing up to the same Nigeria they asked him to come to if he means business.

They used to say that those agitating are noise makers that they should stop ranting on the radio and go to the streets. They did just that and in a peaceful way, someone got shot by the police. You celebrated and said they deserve it. You see nothing wrong about the police shooting a peaceful protest. Okay I get it, when the police shoots at anything Biafra, then they are right.
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Now tell me, how times have you heard in the past, let’s just say 2011 that the police shot and killed angry protesters in the North who were burning churches, Christians, Southerners because they were mad that Buhari lost the elections? Tell me just one person that was in jail because of that incident. Tell me where Adamu Ciroma, Lawal Kaita and of course the one who is now President, that were calling for blood and threatening fire and brimstone to dogs and baboons in the public? Whose blood were they calling for? So you really expect an Igbo man to sit quietly in the unfolding of such abusive and mockery of events and be happy?
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Do you know how many times the Igbos have been killed in the North, beheaded and bantered beyond repairs? Is that not enough to provoke anyone? We should even be thanking them for being peaceful. Who suffers such a territorial humiliation and ethnic prejudice and still remains a peaceful neighbor? Who else have had millions of its people killed in “another man’s land” like the Igbos and yet remain without vengeance?
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You people keep talking about one Nigeria. And how Nigeria is every man’s land. Which every man’s land? It is every man’s land and yet we hear people in Yoruba land angry that there is an Eze Igbo in their land. Which one is now the so called “everybody’s land” you are talking about? Can a man be slaughtered like a ram in his own land?
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The agitation of the Igbos are real and substantial. What has happened to them since this union was created have never been to their own good. You say it will bad for the Igbos to leave and that it is the biggest mistake of a decision they can make. Oh! You suddenly now care about the Igbos? You are worried that they can make a mistake that is not in their interest? The same people you slaughter like rams in “Everyman’s Land”?
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Please let the Igbo man be. His cross is his to carry. And I will always ask, What do you really want from the Igbos, Nigeria?

Only Ignorant and Bigoted Minds Hate Gay People

I do not understand why people who have no idea about science or are sparsely informed about a subject that is scientific in nature would go ahead to write and speak with authoritative arrogance in the area.

Why can’t people who don’t know shit about science keep quiet or ask questions, since carrying out research on the subject is like going to the moon for them? What even annoys me more is how they go all bonkers when someone attempts to correct them. They do not want to be corrected and cannot permit the excuse that they are ignorant on the subject.

There is nothing wrong if a person does not know a thing or speaks so lowly in the knowledge of the subject. But what is wrong is being arrogant in ignorance and remaining fixed also.

The first and truest way of finding out about the true nature of a subject matter is to get rid of all preconceived perceptions and prejudices from your mind. Whether you are for or against the subject. Maintain neutrality in the mind, delete whatever your preconceived idea and feelings fed you on the matter before you go ahead to inquire.

Why am I saying this?

How can someone who does not know what makes people or a person gay, pick-up a pen and start writing bullshit on the subject and in the end his ignorance descends him to bigotry. His source for this is none other but religious books.

Sharing links from religious and bigoted illiterates like yourself in order to support your bigoted ignorance is nothing more than a solidarity of similar bird-brains.

Please learn from people who do real research and exploration on the subject matter. Not people who are looking for ways to excuse or promote their bigotry and cover-up their religious embarrassment they call beliefs.

If you do not know why people are gay, let me explain it to you in the simplest scientific and the most realistic way.

The most accepted and provable explanation for this kind of behaviour comes from evolutionary genetics (if you do not what means, just ignore).

This simply explains that there are “GAY GENES”. I believe we all did biology in High school and so we should have an idea on what a “gene” is, but if you do not know, please ask, I’ll explain to you.

A person’s genetic make-up affects his sexual or mating preferences. This is equally found in other animals and so also in humans. Many genes affect human sexual orientation. However, since the word “gay” sounds a little “ickie” to some people, it is better to use the word “Male-loving” genes. These genes are responsible for these traits.

Let me just summarize it briefly before I make my post too long for those with phobia for reading.

Gays and lesbians are not demons! They are not criminals. They are configured that way from birth just like how you were configured by your own genetic make-up to be turned-on by the opposite sex. So please next time you come spewing bigoted ignorance on others, you have to first of all come up with an explanation for what you did to be admiring or finding the opposite sex attractive.

Besides their sexual genetic make-up, they are not different from you. Just like there is not much of difference between those born with gray hair or with certain features that are not common in others.

Since a long time ago, reasonable and advanced people have stop using religion and their socio-cultural bigotry to explain anything. Look at the world around you and the marvelous inventions and civilization of man, you will never see any marvel brought to the advancement of our kind by religion, primitive conceptions or cultural and personal bigotry on others.

I may make jokes on gay people and give them some taste of sarcasm just like I would make jokes on anyone or race of people, but that does not mean they are outcasts or any less human than myself.

So please don’t allow ignorance turn you to an irrepairable beast. However, I am still aware that some people will rather die and have gay people killed than accept any truthful explanation or reality that would see to the freedom and co-existence of others. But unknown to them, their ignorant bigotry will not stop the world from progressing either.

Thank you.

By Imoh “Son of David”

Why Marriage Is Not Compulsory

People in my part of the world always count it as a great accomplishment to marry and that marriage and having kids is a compulsory and necessity of life every human must undertake in other to be adjudged as happy, accomplished and successful.

How they came to the conclusion that every human on earth must undertake or follow their led down dogma’s in other to be described as fulfilled is what I do not know.

Just like many other things, my people are wrong again and carry this cross of crass reasoning to bewitch themselves and others too. Unknown to them every human will not and cannot marry. The ratio of male to women are not equal and so even if every human were to pick a partner and pair with, someone will be left out.

If you ask me, happiness is the ultimate goal in life and happiness does not exist outside of the mind. It cannot be gotten from the acquisition of things others desire as the led down norms and modus operandi.

And so, if a person does not have neither spouse, sibling nor offspring and he/she is at ultimate peace and satisfaction with self, then that person is a more accomplished human than others who think they own the world and follow the principles of led down practices of “accomplishments” like marriage and having kids and in the end they still live empty and unhappy.

If you think that getting married and having kids will make you happy, then do it and be happy. But if you do that and think that another who is yet to follow practice must mean he or she must be unhappy or unaccomplished compared to you, then you are a victim of mental slavery. And you have been bewitched greatly with communicable ignorance.

In case you do not know, birds born in a cage think that flying is disease. You are like that bird who thinks that others flying must mean they are sick. Folks who choose to be unmarried or childless are happier than you because their mind does not recognize the burden and sadness you want them to have. If they were like you they would have just had kids or marry any gorilla that comes their way, end of story. Unless otherwise they have contacted such burden of sadness to themselves and are yet to satisfy the demands of such practice. But in that case, they alone are responsible for their woes.

But those people who choose not to be are free and even happier than you who thinks you can only find solace in things that you will never be aware of once you die. Please tell me how many of your grand parents and fore fathers in the grave that are aware or still unhappy or happy about the continuation of their hereditary by your existence?

What is the percentage of the genes of your great, great grand parents 3 generations behind that you still have inside of you? To those of you who believe the Adam and Eve hogwash, what percentage of Adam and Eve’s genes have you?

Assuming you carry only 0.06% of your great grand fore-fathers genes, what was the usefulness of any great grand fore father acting like if he does not have an offspring, that all is lost? Of what use is your 0.06% of his genes to him in his grave? Hasn’t he been already erased from the planet?

So please whatever you clinged onto in the name of accomplishment is nothing but vanity and it matters not except in the mind where all instincts and supposed importance live and die. Learn to be happy without others defining happiness for you.

By Imoh “Son of David”

Dear Africans, There Is No Such Thing As A Parental Curse

In Africa, when a child speaks to his parents in anger, irritation or attempts to correct a certain attitude they exhibit, the parents usually pleads offense or being insulted.

In African culture, it is wrong for the child to raise his/her voice on her elders or parents. What is considered as an elder is one with a considerable number of years above the individual.

They are not interested in the subject raised by the child nor whether or not he was wrongly spurred into anger or was speaking on the grounds of his own rights. The code is that if you raise your voice, go against the will and actions of your parents (whether or not that action was doltish or banana-like in reasoning), then it means you are a bad child.

Thus, the parent or the so called elder can never be wrong or offend anyone younger than him, and the child is always wrong so far he speaks up to the parents or the so called elder.

It is this culture of incorrigibility and plead of acceptance of stupidity and sheepishness from the family level of authority which is then multiplied in the society at whole. And this type of reasoning and mind-set, if you ask me, is wanton foolishness. Pure foolishness.

Anybody or group of people who think that authority can never be wrong, should not be questioned or so called lesser subjects ought to follow in silence and sheepish patronage of any form of practice and class-acts of an elder or superior are byzantine bunches of primitive, goat-herding IQ. And of course, they can and will never grow. That is why you folks will worship some so called man of God and politician and get enraged when you see another person do that. The fact is that something is seriously wrong with your head!

Dear Africans, age only means you have seen more days and have witnessed more sunrise and sun-sets than the other. It does not mean you have been gifted or you have eventually adopted some super-ability that makes you unquestionable because you cannot be wrong.

A little child that came to the world today can teach you a lesson you would have never learned if you lived a thousand years. People who have made new discoveries and taught new lessons in world did not do that by the content of their age, but by the content of their reasoning power. So pocket you age, daddy-in-the-lord, Sai! Baba, Oga this, Madam ego worship mentality. It is rubbish! Nobody does that in a sane and advanced society. It is only in backward places they do that shit.

So learn to accept conflicting views. A child raising a voice on the parent is not an insult but a human instinct of rebellion, irritation or a drive to be heard. So hear them out and pocket your “I gave birth to you” and “I used to carry you on my back mentality.”

Ignorance does not know how many people you have seen as a baby. If you are wrong, stupid and deluded, you are just ignorant and your age cannot and will not bar you from being so.

If you want your age to be respected, then let it be seen in the content of your sensibilities, actions and decisions and not by the number of times you cry about how some young man have insulted you. If the only thing you can do is to walk around and plead age without a corresponding presentation of anything admirable, then you have even proven further that the younger one should be the one to babysit you.

And finally, since Africans believe in a lot of superstitions and one of them is that if you disobey your parents or superiors or get them irritated then you are cursed. And if some man curses you by virtue of him/her finding you offensive to his psyche or disagreeing with him, it must mean you will be cursed.

Please if you believe the above in this 21st century, knock yourself with a sledge hammer. You think that because some dumb-headed individual who thinks that he came to see the sun first before you is permitted to act anyhow and as such if he is offended out of his dumbness it must mean he has supernatural abilities to destroy others by virtue of his age.

So he has this kind of power and forces behind him and he hasn’t used it to invent a scientific invention? But it only works when someone offends him, right? You must be sensible.

By Imoh “Son of David”

Dear Africans, There Is No Such Thing As A Parental Curse

In Africa, when a child speaks to his parents in anger, irritation or attempts to correct a certain attitude they exhibit, the parents usually pleads offense or being insulted.

In African culture, it is wrong for the child to raise his/her voice on her elders or parents. What is considered as an elder is one with a considerable number of years above the individual.

They are not interested in the subject raised by the child nor whether or not he was wrongly spurred into anger or was speaking on the grounds of his own rights. The code is that if you raise your voice, go against the will and actions of your parents (whether or not that action was doltish or banana-like in reasoning), then it means you are a bad child.

Thus, the parent or the so called elder can never be wrong or offend anyone younger than him, and the child is always wrong so far he speaks up to the parents or the so called elder.

It is this culture of incorrigibility and plead of acceptance of stupidity and sheepishness from the family level of authority which is then multiplied in the society at whole. And this type of reasoning and mind-set, if you ask me, is wanton foolishness. Pure foolishness.

Anybody or group of people who think that authority can never be wrong, should not be questioned or so called lesser subjects ought to follow in silence and sheepish patronage of any form of practice and class-acts of an elder or superior are byzantine bunches of primitive, goat-herding IQ. And of course, they can and will never grow. That is why you folks will worship some so called man of God and politician and get enraged when you see another person do that. The fact is that something is seriously wrong with your head!

Dear Africans, age only means you have seen more days and have witnessed more sunrise and sun-sets than the other. It does not mean you have been gifted or you have eventually adopted some super-ability that makes you unquestionable because you cannot be wrong.

A little child that came to the world today can teach you a lesson you would have never learned if you lived a thousand years. People who have made new discoveries and taught new lessons in world did not do that by the content of their age, but by the content of their reasoning power. So pocket you age, daddy-in-the-lord, Sai! Baba, Oga this, Madam ego worship mentality. It is rubbish! Nobody does that in a sane and advanced society. It is only in backward places they do that shit.

So learn to accept conflicting views. A child raising a voice on the parent is not an insult but a human instinct of rebellion, irritation or a drive to be heard. So hear them out and pocket your “I gave birth to you” and “I used to carry you on my back mentality.”

Ignorance does not know how many people you have seen as a baby. If you are wrong, stupid and deluded, you are just ignorant and your age cannot and will not bar you from being so.

If you want your age to be respected, then let it be seen in the content of your sensibilities, actions and decisions and not by the number of times you cry about how some young man have insulted you. If the only thing you can do is to walk around and plead age without a corresponding presentation of anything admirable, then you have even proven further that the younger one should be the one to babysit you.

And finally, since Africans believe in a lot of superstitions and one of them is that if you disobey your parents or superiors or get them irritated then you are cursed. And if some man curses you by virtue of him/her finding you offensive to his psyche or disagreeing with him, it must mean you will be cursed.

Please if you believe the above in this 21st century, knock yourself with a sledge hammer. You think that because some dumb-headed individual who thinks that he came to see the sun first before you is permitted to act anyhow and as such if he is offended out of his dumbness it must mean he has supernatural abilities to destroy others by virtue of his age.

So he has this kind of power and forces behind him and he hasn’t used it to invent a scientific invention? But it only works when someone offends him, right? You must be sensible.

By Imoh “Son of David”

Dear Africa, Your Over-Population Is A Curse And Not A Blessing

This African continent is so funny.

A couple that barely earns a reasonable income will mass produce children like chicken laying eggs. And the end result:

– Too many mouths to feeds in his house. And thus, Satan is to be blamed. Because it is Satan that asked him to multiply and fill the earth.

His solution:

Fasting and prayer. Giving more money from his tiny income to the pulpit parrot so that his income can miraculously increase. And when it doesn’t increase, it is the government or his witch mother in the village.

His Solution: More prayers, offerings and anointing water

– The children grow-up; no education, not enough food on their table.

Their Children’s solution:

They become armed robbers. Become thugs for politicians. Join streets gangs and cult groups. Join Boko Haram members to pour their frustration on others like we are responsible for their father’s generousity with his spitting penis.

The Children grow-up, repeat the same foolishness of their parents and keep the multiplication of the hazard going on.

These folks do not understand that the more populated a place is the more there will be more mouths to feed and thus the high prices of food. In a place like Africa where they import everything, almost, they would even import garri. They don’t produce anything. No technology to match their over-population.

To sum it up, they frown against abortion. They would rather give birth to a batallion of lifelings to come to earth and starve and suffer like everyone rather than prevent the multiplication of miseries.

And when all these sum up, they look for who to blame. And of course, we know their favourite blame icon.

By 2050 Africa’s population is calculated to be the highest on earth. What this means is that, it the place where most crime will be committed, illiteracy and hunger would be found. And don’t forget, ethnic and religious violence, because someone must always blame the other for their misery in Africa.

Had it been that they were like China who have technology, develop their economy and take viable measures to check their population growth, there would been some hope. But in this case, we are talking about people who’ll rather insemenate themselves, produce nothing, invent nothing, refuse to learn and think that by looking up in the sky and uttering some words called prayers, that it will cause some magic to happen.

And by 2050, the rest of the world will be done with their plans of shuting their borders from irresponsible intruders. Keep insemenating and multiplying yourselves, shebi Sky-Daddy commands so. I hope he has provided the jobs and land for your multitudes to occupy.

By Imoh “Son of David”

Why Are Christians Afraid To Die?

Why are Christians always afraid of death?

Nobody prays against death like the apostles of life after death and candidates of sky palace with streets of gold. About to board a bus, they pray against accidents, on a flight, they pray against aircrash. Early in the morning, they pray against dying. In the church, they cast and bind untimely death. As a matter of fact to die early is an agony in the mind of the believers of life after death.

How can anyone dislike any circumstance that will unite them with their father? You don’t love your father or you don’t like where he stays or still you believe he doesn’t exist. These are the best possible answers ever.

I think sky-daddy will be feeling bad each time he hears his people pray to him to cancel any situation that will lead them to him.

It is not their fault. In the subconsciousness of the believer lies the picture of a boring, opera-styled environment with no Cable TV, Ipads, facebook, cars but horses, donkeys and most importantly, endless days of opera sing-songs to a white-beareded man on a throne for eternity. That is boring. Who will love such a place? No wonder they don’t want to die.

Perhaps they do not even believe it exists. Their pastors take it further by securing themselves with bulletproof cars and armed security men, in other to prevent any situation that can send them to the company of sandals-wearing men like Peter and Paul or goat skin wearing men like John the baptist and Elijah especially with beards that haven’t been shaved for centuries. Islam was smart to add virgins to make it lovely. Too bad that the Romans never thought of it.

Believing in life after death and then praying against death, is like going to school and refusing to graduate and doing everything possible to remain in school but at the same time telling everyone that the life of a graduate is better than that of a student.

By Imoh “Son of David”